love yourself.

ladies and gents, happy v. day.

hope you enjoy all the love around you and give it to all the people who deserve it in your life.

one of the truest quotes i know is that 'you only accept the love that you think you deserve' so I hope your man buys you flowers, and that you feel special not only today, but everyday you are with him.

this year has been an especially big lesson in learning what love means in my life as an independent female.

i'm so thankful for that.

Tommy boy.

TURQUOISE IVY
ZARA WHITE TEE
ONE TEASPOON AWESOME BAGGIES

I was a tomboy up until sophomore year of high school.

That's when the love affair began with fashion.

I find dressing an art and matching together the perfect outfit is the equivalent to relationship goals.

I also find the simplicity of a white tee/boyfriend jeans combo incredibly satisfying.
It's a good way to reconnect with my roots in this modern-day me way.

& please say hello to my new ivy plant friend.

Morning vibes.

Good morning, weekend. 

Hoping you refresh and renew me. 

Welcoming the storm with open arms.

pillow talk.

DOWN PILLOWS, Y'ALL

This year when I moved into my new place, I decided I was going to grow up in the apartment therapy kind of way. I invested in new furniture for a bigger space, organizational products that were also attractive and most importantly, I invested in brand new bedding.

I looked back on all the years i've been out of college and thought- i haven't bought anything new since I left my house. In fact, I brought most of the things I had from my parent's abode. So, I decided to slowly flip my bed into the cloudlike mecca that it is now. New duvet and comforter, new foam mattress topper and brand new sleeping pillows and decorative pillows. I was actually excited for all this new stuff, and it wasn't even clothes! Is this what adulting feels like?

As i've gotten older, i'm discovering more and more how important (and sometimes difficult) a good nights sleep is. When I was in college, I slept around my study schedule, mastering the art of the nap and sometimes not sleeping at all, and somehow I made it out alive. But now that i'm on that 10-6 schedule, i've learned that although it's possible to get through a day without an 8-count of hours slept, it's not necessarily the best for your body, and recharging isn't only for your iPhone.

My doctor told me that coffee is the worst thing to do before an appointment because it raises your heart rate, so it got me thinking that it's probably best in smaller doses. I definitely enjoy the occasional Flat White to get me going in the morning, but getting all that sleep in is always the better alternative healthwise. Besides, it keeps those dollar bills in your pocket.

what a marshmallow.

     

FP CHUNKY SCARF

This scarf is certainly one that can weather a storm. Although the weather has hardly warranted it's use yet this season,
i'm ready for when I can bring it out regularly. The moment I saw it in the shop window I knew I had to have it. It's so fluffy that whenever I feel it around my neck all I can do is smile, and feel like taking a nap. There's a song that has some lyrics I
always feel like I can relate to during the winter season...

SHE GETS DRESSED UP LIKE A PILLOW, SO SHE'S ALWAYS IN BED

-Where has the time gone? by Dr.Dog

Now all I need is a pair of gloves to match.

a few of my favorite things.

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5&6.

The holidays and the year are coming to a close and I thought that it would be a great time to look back and appreciate some of my favorite things I got this year. The best things aren't things, they're people and i'm extremely blessed to have been able to spend a large amount of time with my family this year having some unforgettable experiences. I've also had a lot of people come into my life this year that I am fortunate to know and my strongest relationships have stood the test of time, distance and unforeseeable variables. Fittingly, most of my prized possessions at the moment are things that have sentimental value to those in my life. 

1. FRYE STELLA CHELSEA SHORT As we grew older, it seems like at Christmastime the toys we get dwindle or are seen as less useful, and over the course of time, my family has begun to exchange money. I usually take advantage of this excess of money to pay off bills, or put in my savings, but this year my mother advised me to put the money towards something material so that I can remember the person who gave me the money by as long as I have it. This is the object I chose.

2. ANTHROPOLOGIE BRENTA SWING DRESS This dress is especially sentimental because during this holiday season I got the opportunity to watch my best friend say 'i do'. I was the MOH for this event and spent three days straight helping things go smoothly, which I hope she things that they did. She spent the time to pick this gift out and thank me for my efforts. It was completely unnecessary for her to do so, but it is one of the most beautiful clothing items I own and I will cherish it always.

3. FRENCH GIRL LIP POLISH This is an item I gifted to myself, and it's my favorite thing right now because every winter, my lips become so crazy chapped it's unbearable. This little bottle does wonders to remedy that problem. Think sea salt scrub for your lips, and it smells delicious.

4. YAMAHA ACOUSTIC GUITAR When I was a little girl, my father would disappear and I would hear sweet tunes coming from his room upstairs. It was his was of relaxing, his passion, but I would follow the noise and join him to sing James Taylor by his side, no matter how done deaf I am. This year I decided to learn guitar, and we spent some time together over the holidays as he taught me some of the basics with my new guitar that was under the tree. It's a special bonding moment that I love.

5. JOHN DERIAN SWIFT PLATE I've been at my job for a year and a half and I love what I do there. Everyday I learn new things from an incredible team and although small, we work together to make each issue of the magazine beautiful every month. My boss' favorite store is John Derian, so it's very touching that I received this item from her for the holidays.

6. VINTAGE SPRAY BOTTLE My mother knows my appreciation for vintage items, and she digs them up all over my house from her mother and grandmothers from time to time and is kind enough to give them to me. This is just one of the items she passed along to me, its always an honor to be in the presence of those things that have stood the test of time.

Happy holidays all, cherish all those things and people that you hold dear this year and always.

the haute holidays.

FREE PEOPLE SEAMLESS CROP

MADEWELL SPIN DRIFT PENDANT NECKLACE

This year for Christmas, I decided to embrace the hues of the season without being too obvious.
Or perhaps being just obvious enough...

I reached to some of my favorites - a seamless crop and a long statement necklace - and found them in my favorite variations of green and red - emerald and cranberry - to come up with this combo. 

I then below paired them with a couple of colors that I can always rely on by grabbing a white sweater and a black leather midi skirt to complete the look! The sweater ended up being warm enough to act as a jacket this warm winter. This is I think my most favorite holiday in the books to date and a lot more dynamic then the typical dress I sport on Wilgia.

Wiligia by the way is a huge part of my culture growing up, it's what the polish call the day that is Christmas Eve, complete with oplatec, sledzie, and in our family, a Yankee swap.

Happy Holidays everyone!

FP ALPACA CLOUD PULLOVER

BLANK NYC VEGAN LEATHER MIDI SKIRT

winter is coming.

MADEWELL CITY GRID TWEED JACKET

The city grid jacket has haunted me since last year when it was sold out at the end of the season.

Everything about the jacket; the diagonal zip, the top that clicks close to protect your neck from the winter chill,

the perfect length to keep you warm while still allowing you full range of motion.

It's perfection.

So when Madewell decided to have its legendary full item sales I got it in tweed. 

& then in black. with leather accents.

Winter in the n.y.c. in my experience is a pretty daunting time in the lives' of city slickers. Most take to their apartments to hibernate or cuff, and I don't seem to see them again until the snow is melted and the sun sets at a decent hour again.

All the walking around the grid proves to be more difficult when there's snow flying past you. But i'm refusing to hideaway during these chilly months and weather the storms. Preferably in my new beautiful winter jacket.

chopped.

MADEWELL PARIS TEE

I've been growing my hair out for ten years now, we've been through it all together. But through all the curling, drying,
straightening and lack of trimming seshs, I've managed to damage it to the point of no return. A few weeks ago, I looked at my
hair after air drying naturally, my locks frizzed and frayed and thought 'what am I gonna do with you?' The thought of
shorter hair always intrigued and terrified me, but with the lob style in currently I decided if not now, then when? I got mixed
reactions when I told my friends about this bold move, as my roommate so bluntly put it…

but, I feel like you ARE the hair

…and then went on to encourage me to do it. So last week I sat down in the hairdressers chair and explained
to her the whole thing- my love hate relationship with my long, tired hair and the fear of having my hair cur short with
my natural curls in mind. We decided on a longer version of a lob, and I took a deep breath as she relieved
me of SEVEN INCHES of my hair. She put tons of shape in- adding angles, layers, ragged edges, and invisible layers, which apparently is a thing, explaining with each cut that she was not taking more length off to calm me down. 

When all was said and done, I ran my hands through and felt how incredibly healthy it felt for the first time in years,
and knew I made the right decision. I can still put my hair up when I feel lazy, manage to have my hair in my face constantly, and
my curls didn't manage to bob up. It's uncomfortably new, but I'm settling into it. I've learned that in order to grow faster
and healthy, sometimes you just need to cut off pieces that aren't helping. As my amazing hairdresser said…

It's no big deal, it's just hair.

Shoes and Shadows.

#SHOESANDSHADOWS

When it comes to shoes, I like to find a pair that I love and I commit to them until the soles are worn down and the suede is torn through. and then i'll usually wear them some more.

I think the architecture of shoes is a fabulous art and my new obsession is showcasing them on their own while shedding the light on the brand new kicks that they deserve.

So #shoesandshadows to show me what you got or see the new pair in my closet.
These guys are Solas, Jeffery Campbell, Jeffery Campbell and more Jeffery Campbell.